11 Small Things You Can Do In A Marriage That Make A Big Difference

Having a good marriage is hard work. It's the small, everyday moments of love, support and kindness between two people that define a lasting partnership.

The readers of HuffPost were asked to share the little, unexpected tips and tricks that make a big difference in their relationships. And what they came up with is 'marriage gold' and you should get to work right now. They're small things and there's only 11 so it won't take too long.

1. A good, long hug makes all the difference.

2. Go out of your way to do something silly and sweet to make your partner smile.

3. Never stop saying "thank you" -- even for the simplest of tasks.

4. Create a quirky nighttime ritual that's just about the two of you.

5. Don't just say "I love you." Tell each other why specifically.

6. Kiss each other goodbye no matter what.

7. Inside jokes are a must.

8. Think about how you can make your partner's day easier, and then do that.

9. Spending some time apart can strengthen your bond.

10. Don't underestimate the importance of touch.

11. Even when you're busy, let your partner know that he or she is always top of mind.