Michelle’s One Minute Bridesmaid Tips: Tip #62 – Be Helpful, Not Pushy [VIDEO]
Offer once, maybe twice, but after three step away.
As a bridesmaid, you should definitely want to help out your friend, the bride, with anything she needs. That's kind of the idea.
BUT, if she declines your help, that's ok. You can walk away. I asked a bunch of my married friends what they would say to their bridesmaids if they could give advice, and this one came from one of them. Sometimes a bride just wants to do things herself. Because she wants everything to be perfect, totally understandable.
But when she does ask for help, help her.
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